TRESSIE ELIZABETH NASH SHULL BOWMAN
AAFA #0039
1899 AR – 1992 MD
WASHINGTON POST
Washington, DC—Thursday, 22 October 1992
Bowman, Tressie E.—On Tuesday, October 20, 1992
of Thurmont [Frederick Co.], MD, formerly of Rockville [Montgomery Co.], MD, beloved
wife of the late Lewis O. Bowman Sr.; mother of the late Lucy Shull Stevens;
mother-in-law of Robert J. Stevens of Rockville, MD; grandmother of William L.
Stevens of Ijamsville, MD, David A. Stevens of Thurmont, MD and Dolly Stevens-Tootle
of Purcellville, VA. Four great ‑grandchildren also survive.
A graveside service will be held at Parklawn
Memorial Park on Friday, October 23, 1992 at 11 a.m.... Memorial contributions
may be made to the American Cancer Society. Arrangements by Pumphrey’s Colonial
Funeral Home.
AAFA NOTES: SSDI
records show that Tressie Bowman (SS# issued in LA) was born 16 Jan 1899, last
residence Rockville, Montgomery Co,. MD.
At the 1990 Annual Meeting in Raleigh, NC,
Tressie Bowman was named as the first inductee into the Alford Hall of Fame by AAFA
President Lodwick Alford. She published the first Alford genealogical
newsletter, Alford Family Bulletin. Mrs. Bowman’s early Alford research,
much of it now in AAFA hands, is an invaluable resource and gave AAFA a firm
basis from which to establish itself. We published the announcement of her
induction in the Fall 1993 issue.
Her Alford lineage, which did not begin until
the 10th generation from her: Joanna 1622 England10,
Thomas 1598 England11.
Her
biography, published in AAFA
ACTION, September 1990:
The lady many of us have come to love and know
as Tressie Bowman was born 16 January 1899 in Little Rock, Pulaski Co., AR. She
was the daughter of Leander Lemuel and Mary Pamelia (White) Nash. Leander,
called Lee, was born 12 November 1859 in Limestone Co., AL. Mary was born 12
May 1866 in Aurora, Kane CO, IL. So Tressie began her life with an attraction
for both the North and the South.
By the time she was nine years old the family
had moved to Texarkana, Miller Co., AR, where her mother died in March 1908. At
that time Tressie had two sisters living: Mary, about 19 years old, and
Frankie, about seven. Tressie’s father was a railroad man and was gone from
home much of the time. Mary did most of the housework and took care of her
younger sisters, but in 1910, at age 21, Mary died. Mr. Nash tried to get
live-in help but finally gave up and placed Tressie and Frankie in a Catholic
convent, Sacred Heart Academy. Neither of the girls were of the Catholic faith;
however, their father came home and took them to the Methodist Church as often
as he could.
Later Tressie’s father married a widow,
Josephine (Sheppard) Myers, the daughter of Senator Sheppard from Arkansas.
Josephine had her own children, including a set of twins. She owned a small
store in Doddridge, or Fouke, AR, and Tressie and all the children had to help
in the store. The lady next door had the telephone exchange in her home, and
she offered to teach Tressie how to run the switchboard. She later became a
telephone operator.
Tressie remembers one of the most thrilling
moments of her life as the time she heard news of the Armistice in World War I.
She opened all the keys on her switchboard and rang everyone on the exchange so
they could hear it from New York. She could hear all kinds of praise and
thanksgiving from the mothers of sons who were “over there” and she could
hardly see for the tears in her eyes.
While she was working the switchboard, Tressie “met”
James Matthew Shull. He was born 24 June 1884 in Sabine Parish, Louisiana, the
son of William Levi and Lucy (Maines) Shull. “Matt” was a bookkeeper for a
lumber company which was served by the switchboard. They seemed to fall in love
with each other’s voices, and although Matt had told her he had only one leg, their
“relationship” continued. They finally met in person and were married three
months later on 14 Dec 1918 in Texarkana.
After the birth of their daughter Lucy (AAFA
#0094), the family moved to Louisiana where Matt worked in the court house in
Minden and was Clerk of Court in Coushatta. Matt went to Jacksonville, FL,
about 1924–25 when the “boom” started. Tressie, her father (who had divorced
Josephine), and Lucy followed by train. From there the family returned to
Coushatta, LA, where Matt started his own Abstract and Title Company. He later
co-owned another similar company in Many, Sabine Parish, LA, which he still had
an interest in when he died on 20 November 1934 in Caddo Parish, LA. He is
buried in the Bayou Scie Methodist Church Cemetery near Zwolle, Sabine Parish, LA.
Before he died, however, the family lived in
several other towns in north Louisiana—wherever thre was an oil boom. During
that period Tressie signed on with the Fuller Brush Company and as the only
female salesperson led all the salesmen in the six parish area. It was said
that she could talk the tail off a donkey and sell it back to him.
Matt died 20 November 1934, after a lingering
illness following a stroke. After his death, Tressie and daughter Lucy moved to
Shreveport, LA, where Tressie took a job as a practical nurse. In 1935, her
sister Frankie’s husband was able to get her a job with the American Cotton
Co-op Exchange in New Orleans where they lived for a year and a half. When that
job played out, they returned to Minden, LA, and Tressie worked in various jobs
in and around Shreveport. From there she moved to Dallas, TX, where she worked
for the Reconstruction Finance Corporation (RFC), a government agency
established by President Hoover in the early 1930’s to aid businesses and home
owners with loans.
By that time Lucy had finished high school and
business school. When she joined her mother in Dallas in 1939 she took a
Federal Civil Service exam and began to work for the Federal Reserve. In 1941,
Lucy received an appointment in Washington, DC, with the government. She moved
there and lived with her aunt Frankie and her husband. Lucy met her future
husband, Bob Stevens, on her first day of work at the Veterans Administration.
Nine months after their marriage, Tressie could
stand it no longer—she moved to Washington to be near her daughter and her new
husband. Since Bob went into service just six months after the marriage,
Tressie lived for a while with Lucy. Later, she got an apartment in Washington
and lived alone. Tressie worked for the RFC in both Dallas and Washington. When
the RFC closed, she went to work for the National Naval Medical Center as a
library assistant. She retired in 1962. Tressie joined the National
Genealogical Society and at one time served as their treasurer and councilor.
Tressie loved to dance, and those who are old
enough will remember all the dances held for the servicemen during World War II
at the USO, whre Tressie did volunteer work. She met Lewis Orlando Bowman, Sr.
at a government dance, and they were married 17 June 1949 in Washington, DC.
Lewis was born in 1904 in Hambleton, WV, and
died in 1976 in Bethesda, MD. Lewis also liked to dance and they both liked to
travel, so they traveled extensively and danced frequently. Lewis was a sail
maker and leather worker at the Naval Gun Factory. Needless to say the couple
made many genealogy research trips and attended several reunions.
Tressie’s Alford connection was through her mother,
Mary Pamelia White, granddaughter of Pamelia Sikes. From there she traces her
ancestors back through five additional generations of Sikes to Increase Sikes,
Sr. who married Abigail Fowler in 1670. Abigail was the daughter of Joanna
Alford Fowler. Joanna was the sister of Benedict Alford and Alexander Alvord,
both progenitors of notable New England branches of the family. Tressie is able
to trace her Alfords back to the mid-1500s in England.
Tressie’s first husband gave her another Alford
connection. Matthew Shull’s great-grandmother was Lucy Alford Maines of Sabine
Parish, LA, daughter of Jacob Alford. Jacob, who moved from North Carolina,
with a short stay in Georgia, to Louisiana in the very early 1800s, was the
progenitor of most of the Sabine Parish Alfords, the Washington and Tangipahoa
Parish Alfords, and many of the Alfords of Pike and Walthall Counties in
Mississippi.
In July 1970 Tressie published her first issue
of the Alford Family Bulletin. The stated purpose of her bulletin was to
prove the ancestry of Jacob Alford and to learn the connections between the New
Kent Co., VA, Alfords and those of New England. That first issue was a 15 page
document with page one being a letter explaining and introducing the
publication. The other 14 pages were packed with census data, probate record
indexes, abstracts of wills, information from pension applications, deed
abstracts and indexes, marriage lists, and a family chart on Jacob Alford and
the data applied to a myriad of states.
She continued to publish these bulletins, at the
rate of about two annually, usually in July and December, until the fall of
1979 when she published her final issue. There was a hiatus from December 1971
until July 1976 and some years she managed only one issue. In 1977 she
experienced a fire in the basement of her building and lost some of her records.
She had cataract surgery in the fall of 1979 and was scheduled for an implant.
That, together with other surgery and illness in 1978, and the ever increasing
postal rates, nearly ended the bulletin. In 1971 the subscription was $2 per
year, and when she stopped in 1979 the price had increased to $7. Never did she
publish an issue that was not packed with interesting and useful information on
Alfords.
While most of her data came from her own
personal research, Tressie depended on input from readers for some of her
bulletins, and there are names mentioned in the bulletins who are members of
the Alford American Family Association today. Some of those noted are Lucille
Mehrkam, Rod Bush, Alberta (Arletta) Skillen, Robert S. Barrows, D.L. Alford,
Rose Alford Shelton, and Margaret Windham.
Tressie Bowman was the first person to undertake
a project which addressed all Alfords in all geographic areas and in all
branches of the family. Other important works, such as Colonel Harllee’s Kinfolks
and Hugh Edwin Alford’s In Search of My Alford Ancestors, limit
themselves to a small part of the family.
Over the years Tressie researched and collected
information on Alfords by the thousands. Data was meticulously entered on
individual records—3 x 5 inch slips called pea slips. She also prepared family
group records on each family she found. Copies of all of these have been made
available to AAFA either by Mrs. Bowman or through her daughter, Lucy Shull
Stevens. The family group records are available to members from the AAFA
library.
As long as Alford descendants engage in research
on their family history, Mrs. Bowman will be remembered. They may not use her
bulletins or even see her name, but all will be indebted to her for the work
she did in pioneering research on Alford family history.
As an expression of appreciation for her work,
she was the first person to be inducted into the AAFA Hall of Fame and receive
a lifetime honorary AAFA membership.